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Unraveling Human Behavior: Evolution, MeToo, and Puritans...

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In this blog post, we'll dive headfirst into the collision between our evolutionary quirks and the ideals we hold dear: egalitarianism and its offshoot the MeToo movement, and even a sprinkle of puritanical goodness from our history.

This is definitely NOT me writing this post!

You behave like a primate

Our ancestors, rockin' it through millions of years of evolution, developed some peculiar traits to survive and thrive. These traits shaped our behavior, but hey, not all of them fit perfectly into our modern world. Who knew nature could be so cheeky?

These behaviors were honed through natural selection, ensuring the passing down of advantageous traits to subsequent generations. However, it is important to note that not all behaviors that served our ancestors well align with our modern ideals and values.

Some examples of these primitive behaviors are all too present: checking out someone's derrière, looking for the most attractive mate, looking for health cues ( good hair and teeth...) and so on and on and on.

Me2 Tango

Enter the MeToo movement, spotlighting the issue of harassment and assault. It's like a clash of evolution and societal ideals—our primal instincts sometimes clash with concepts like consent and respect. It's a real conundrum, folks. Let's face it: navigating human behavior can be as perplexing as solving a Rubik's Cube in a dark room!

While the movement has brought about positive changes, it also highlights the conflict between our evolutionary inclinations and the social constructs we strive to uphold. Our evolutionary heritage, characterized by competition for mates and reproductive success, can sometimes lead to behaviors that undermine the principles of consent and respect.

Acknowledging this conflict allows us to better understand the complexity of human behavior without excusing or condoning such actions.

Very high expectations we have as cognitive beings can bring out some very unrealistic and what we would term as "unreasonable" rules. For example women get made up and dressed up to attract gazes. So getting noticed should be considered a success. Of course getting violated is a way other extreme of getting "noticed." This is what ended up confusing men such as Mr Weinstein - no excuses possible here.

It's the fault of jeans

Oh, but wait! We can't simply throw away genes we don't fancy. It's not like picking out the funky socks from the drawer we want to toss away. Our primal instincts sneakily whisper in our ears, shaping our choices, even when we're trying to be all logical and stuff. It's like having a secret agent living inside us, always up to some mischief.

Now, here's the real knee-slapper: in our quest for standardized socially safe emotions, we sometimes forget that we're a wacky bunch with evolutionary traits galore. Suppressing those quirks can make us feel like an awkwardly stuffed teddy bear—out of touch with our authentic selves.

Let's not go all Puritan again

History lessons, anyone? Back in the day, puritanical ideals were flung at us like holy confetti. Talk about trying to suppress our evolutionary wild side! It's like telling a cheetah to walk in slow motion—absurd, right? Let's learn from our past mistakes and not repeat the whole "trying to fit a square peg into a round hole" debacle.

Throughout history, societal norms, often influenced by religious beliefs, have sought to regulate and control human behavior. The puritanical ideals imposed in the past demonstrate how attempts to suppress our evolutionary traits can have unintended consequences, stifling individual expression and causing psychological distress. By studying the lessons of the past, we can approach our understanding of human behavior with nuance and considerate analysis, avoiding the pitfalls of past dogmas.

Let's get serious

Exploring the intricate relationship between our evolutionary heritage and societal constructs is a daunting task, but an essential one. Recognising the complex interplay between our primal instincts and our aspirations for a just and equitable society can lead to a more empathetic and informed understanding of ourselves and others. By engaging in open and respectful discussions, we can navigate the challenges and conflicts that arise from these competing forces, fostering personal growth and collective progress in the process.